At Least You Tried .

"Life is about becoming a better version of yourself everyday."

What is life?

...

Life is crazy.

Life is unpredictable.

Life is unexpectable.

Life is not easy.

But it's simple.

Because the choice is always yours.

And the best choice is always to give your best.

No matter what's ahead of you.

Final exam.

Complicated relationship.

Financial issue.

Health problem.

Give your best in all.

Give your all to be ready for the exam.

Work hard.

Study day and night.

Do extra reading.

Repeat ten times if you have to.

Even if you still fail,

At least you tried.

Be the better person in your relationship.

Stay loyal.

Lower your ego down.

Be the one who never stops fighting.

Even if it still tumbles,

At least you tried.

Do your best to be financially stable.

Learn from those who already succeed.

Do part times.

Invest on potential companies.

Even if you still broke,

At least you tried.

Do everything you could to stay healthy.

Take your daily meds.

Eat healthy foods.

Stay positive that you'll be fine.

Even if you still sick,

At least you tried.

You've done your best.

At least there'll be no thoughts like,

"I should've done it better"

Because you've already done everything you could.

Your best is always more than enough.

All you can do then is to learn from the past.

There's always something for you to learn from.

Think positive. 

There's always a rainbow after the storm.

Everything happens for a reason.

Something better may be waiting for you.

Remember the most important thing:

Do your best,

And let Allah do the rest.

New year is coming.

So let's continue in giving our best for 2019 :)

Acceptance .

"Appreciate good people as they are hard to come by."

That handsome man may have a drinking problem.

That kind-hearted person may have ugly scars on his face.

That rich guy may have a bad family.

That genius boy may have depression.

That guy you love may not be what everyone called Prince Charming.

That best friend you have now may not know how to be a good listener.

That girl crush of  yours may have insecurities of her own.

Because the truth is,

Nobody's perfect.

Searching for perfection is a never ending process.

There's always someone better than the other at some point.

And you'll never stop comparing them to each other.

Blinded by how big their flaws are.

Not realizing about their perfection in other things.

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Accept people for who they are.

Learn to appreciate people.

Let them know their presence are appreciated.

Let them know what you like about them. 

Let them know what more can they do to be better.

Instead of always commenting,

Make them better.

Fix each other together.

Because you yourself aren't perfect too after all.

Stop expecting too much from others.

And end up always feeling not enough when they fail to meet up to that.

"Appreciate those who love you.

Help those who need you.

Forgive those who hurt you.

Forget those who leave you."

Treat others how you want to be treated.

Please others how you want to be pleased.

Appreciate people how you want to be appreciated.

List the things that would make you really happy if someone does it to you.

And do it to others instead.

Because...

Small things mean so much when it comes from the right person :)

Our Fight Song !

Huh.

Tiring.

Isn't it?

When the road is just so much harder for you.

When you and the world just couldn't sync in.

When plan doesn't seem to be going in the right way.

When others don't seem to be in same wavelength.

When shutting up is the better thing to do.

Quite exhausting.

Doesn't it?

When you thought you've done enough but it didn't.

When you thought everything's gonna be fine but didn't.

When you thought people understand you but they don't.

Hurt.

Doesn't it?

When you couldn't count on anyone anymore not even yourself.

When you are not who you thought you would be.

When people could easily thought everything would turn out fine.

Things just don't flew away as easy as it seems.

Not as simple as they thought.

It never does.

To those who are in the same boat,

Here's to us...

"You don't know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you got."

You might only have one match, 

but that's enough to make an explosion.

You might only have little sparks remained,

but  that's enough to lit up the world.

You might only have yourself,

but that's all you need to go through everything.

Because you still got a lot of fire left in you.

Hoping for people to understand can be heartbreaking.

Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.

Or sometimes you'll be the selfish one.

You don't need everybody to believe in you.

Doesn't matter even if the whole world doesn't.

As long as you believe in yourself.

As long as you fight for yourself.

This may be the time where we're on the down side.

You lose.

You fail.

You fall behind.

You're sick.

That doesn't define you a bit.

But it defines how your life gonna be.

Full of scars.

But beautiful inspiring plot.

With an amazing ending.

Almost everything will work out again if it is unplugged for a few moments,

Including you.

Take time.

Take some time to be alone.

Take time to have a short escape.

Take a pause from all the life's bullshit.

Take a step back from those toxic people.

Get some air.

Remind yourself who you are,

And who you want to be.

But before the end of the day,

Get back up.

With a new winning mindset.

With a sweet positive smile.

And lastly,

An unbeatable YOU.

You'll get over the things you're going through now.

Why?

Because you always do :)

Fighter .

"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you don't know."

Here's to those who are currently fighting a battle...

It's okay to cry.

It's okay to feel alone.

It's okay to feel sad.

It's okay to stay down for awhile.

It's okay wanting to runaway from the world.

It doesn't make you weak.

It doesn't define your strength or weakness.

It never will.

Because we are all human after all.

And human have their breakdown sometimes.

"It's not how you fall, but it's how you pick yourself up that counts." 

Wanna know who said that?

Joker.

Yup.

Even a villain knows to get back up and not giving up to conquer the world.

Do whatever you want when you fall.

But when the time comes,

Wipe your own tears.

Know that you got the whole world behind your back.

Hold on to those you love.

And most importanly,

Get back up.

Even if you have to go through one hell of a fight.

Fight !

Fight even if it means you're gonna have a body full of scars.

Fight even if it means you're gonna fall back again.

Fight even if it means you're gonna lose couple of times.

Because you matter.

You deserve to be fighting for.

No one will fight for you if you are not strong enough to fight for yourself.

It's just a matter of time before you win.

And when that time comes,

You're not gonna remember all the scars you have.

So again,

Here's to the strong fighters,

Let's fight.

And let's scars to our beautiful :)

Broken Part .

Have you ever been with a group of great kindhearted people?

Who are always there by your side.

Who always there to catch you in case you fall.

Who have always been the cheerleader to your success.

Who always make your gloomy day seems brighter.

Who always ready to put a smile on your face.

Who have always been the one you talk to about your day.

No matter how happy or how shitty it was.

Family.

Friends.

And I find it a bit funny sometimes,

They are the one who always been the giving party.

And I'm always the one receiving it.

Always.

Well maybe because I've always been the broken part,

And there's not much to give.

And ofcourse, 

What can they expect from a broken part.

They know their job was only to fix.

And if they found any trouble, 

They'll find another person,

Who they think can help them.

Like why would they seek help from the people that couldn't even handle themselves.

Sounds ironic.

Well, that's how great they are.

They are always there when you need them.

And they always find a way not to bother you even when troubles come.

To those reading this,

Thank you for being a blessing.

And sorry that I am not.

Sorry that I can't make this a two way process.

I wanted to.

But maybe you don't really think I can.

It's my fault that you don't want to bother me with your problem.

Eventhough that is what friends are for.

I understand.

I would do the same thing too. 

Hard to trust whether the problematic one is able to handle the problem that are not theirs.

Right?

Well,

It's hard being the one who can't give.

Or not be given the chance to give.

Who doesn't want to be a good friend, right?

And obviously, 

Being a burden to others without having the chance to give back to them is not.

Maybe they thank me for giving the chance for them to contribute more.

To fix more.

I don't know.

But above all,

I just want to give my full appreciation to those group of people.

They are the blessing.

And I am not .

Hope .

I HOPE .

I hope you find the wisdom to understand, 

Why you’re better off without some people.

And why some people had to leave,

Instead of holding on without really knowing why. 

I hope you find the strength

 To let go before you fall. 

I hope you find the courage 

To leave before you get lost. 

I hope you trust the instincts that tell you if something doesn’t feel right.

 I hope you see people for who they are 

Not who you want them to be.

I hope you know that life is hard. 

But it gets easier when the things that are meant for you fall into place. 

When you learn how to wait 

Because good things take time. 

I hope you know that what is  meant for you will never pass you by.

I hope you understand that if it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. 

I hope you don’t get attached to wrong things or temporary things. 

I hope you learn how to let go of the life you wanted, 

And live the one that’s meant for you. 

Live your journey. 

Live your own story. 

I hope you learn how to let go of what’s not yours.

I hope you know the difference between what you want and what you need.

I hope you put more trust in God and less trust in people.

I hope you don’t stop believing that your time is coming.

I hope you hold your head up high 

And walk away with pride when you feel unwanted or unappreciated. 

I hope you know that when you find what’s meant for you, 

The confusion will go away. 

The madness will make sense. 

 And your happy ending will find you. 

Rania Naim .

Change.

We can't change people for who they are.

.........

How bad they are.

Or how good they are.

We can't change them.

We can only change ourselves.

Change how we accept people.

Change how we treat people.

Change how we feel about people.

As I always said.

Don't expect anything from others.

Not everyone can accept our broken parts.

No matter how hard we tried to accept theirs.

Not everyone can accept our scars and flaws.

No matter how hard we try to just keep our eyes closed on theirs.

Not everyone can treat us how we treat them.

No matter how hard we wait.

'Cause maybe there's just one moment where they'll change.

Well, guess what?

They're not.

There're million kinds of people.

Some are like angels.

And some are just full of shit.

But it's okay.

We all have our own stories and reasons.

Because the reality is,
You can't just treat someone the way you want to be treated,
Just so that they will do the same to you.

Nonsense.

You'll end up disappointed.

So if you want some changes done,

Don't do it on others.

Do it on yourself.

So let's change.

Let's not give a shit about others :)